Comments for Wily Filipino http://wilyfilipino.wordpress.com This is what brown can do for you. Thu, 05 Nov 2009 17:15:34 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on Some of you may be wondering… by sunnydelyte21 http://wilyfilipino.wordpress.com/2009/11/05/some-of-you-may-be-wondering/#comment-403 sunnydelyte21 Thu, 05 Nov 2009 17:15:34 +0000 http://wilyfilipino.wordpress.com/?p=521#comment-403 I agree with this post 100%. And your right usually the one that is cheated on feels like they have done something wrong to make the other person cheat. That isn't the case at all, I had to learn that on my own. I agree with this post 100%. And your right usually the one that is cheated on feels like they have done something wrong to make the other person cheat. That isn’t the case at all, I had to learn that on my own.

]]> Comment on When was the last time you played? by Adia http://wilyfilipino.wordpress.com/2009/10/28/when-was-the-last-time-you-played/#comment-401 Adia Fri, 30 Oct 2009 20:40:39 +0000 http://wilyfilipino.wordpress.com/?p=511#comment-401 Then I am jaded. Then again, I've never met a man I wanted to have kids with who also wanted to have kids with me, so... Then I am jaded.

Then again, I’ve never met a man I wanted to have kids with who also wanted to have kids with me, so…

]]> Comment on When was the last time you played? by Wile E. Filipino http://wilyfilipino.wordpress.com/2009/10/28/when-was-the-last-time-you-played/#comment-400 Wile E. Filipino Thu, 29 Oct 2009 06:42:53 +0000 http://wilyfilipino.wordpress.com/?p=511#comment-400 I’m not saying that there isn’t stress or worry in parenting, but if that’s the only lens you see through, it’s a pretty jaded existence. I have a friend who loves talking about his son, poop and throw-up stories and all, and you can tell that he totally geeks out showing his kid Star Wars and other things that he grew up with. He gets to relive the amazement and wonder through his son’s eyes. If everyone listened to those studies, then no one would have kids in a relationship. And that would be the end of our culture. I’m all about hanging out with a cool kid and giving them back whenever they act up, but that’s a different experience than being a parent. There’re plenty of new experiences to be had. I’m not saying that there isn’t stress or worry in parenting, but if that’s the only lens you see through, it’s a pretty jaded existence. I have a friend who loves talking about his son, poop and throw-up stories and all, and you can tell that he totally geeks out showing his kid Star Wars and other things that he grew up with. He gets to relive the amazement and wonder through his son’s eyes.

If everyone listened to those studies, then no one would have kids in a relationship. And that would be the end of our culture.

I’m all about hanging out with a cool kid and giving them back whenever they act up, but that’s a different experience than being a parent. There’re plenty of new experiences to be had.

]]> Comment on When was the last time you played? by Adia http://wilyfilipino.wordpress.com/2009/10/28/when-was-the-last-time-you-played/#comment-398 Adia Thu, 29 Oct 2009 00:42:11 +0000 http://wilyfilipino.wordpress.com/?p=511#comment-398 When I think of happy, joyful, playful people, I don't think of parents of children under the age of 25. Maybe even 30. They're stressed, worried, maybe a little haggard, too concerned with making sure the kid doesn't hurt herself to play. But maybe that's just my outsider perspective. (Although studies have shown that kids are guaranteed to ruin your marriage and make you less happy than you were B.C.) I suggest just spending time with children every once in a while, children that aren't yours, so you can give them back. "Whee! That was fun. Oops, they're dirty and crying now. Here ya go! La la la.." (skipping off into the sunset) When I think of happy, joyful, playful people, I don’t think of parents of children under the age of 25. Maybe even 30.

They’re stressed, worried, maybe a little haggard, too concerned with making sure the kid doesn’t hurt herself to play. But maybe that’s just my outsider perspective. (Although studies have shown that kids are guaranteed to ruin your marriage and make you less happy than you were B.C.)

I suggest just spending time with children every once in a while, children that aren’t yours, so you can give them back.

“Whee! That was fun. Oops, they’re dirty and crying now. Here ya go! La la la..” (skipping off into the sunset)

]]> Comment on Be the Man You Want to Marry by Sable http://wilyfilipino.wordpress.com/2009/10/09/be-the-man-you-want-to-marry/#comment-397 Sable Fri, 23 Oct 2009 02:27:44 +0000 http://wilyfilipino.wordpress.com/?p=473#comment-397 wow i love this. I'm doing a project on the importance of being a whole person before you try to be with someone else and i stumbled upon your blog and I found myself in a similar situation as you and the problem is is that when we women realize there is a problem we search for the right words or the right time or we even have futile assumptions that our problems with our men will just up and vanish; and that is a problem. At your point or insecurity I'm sure that you expected your girlfriend to help you but the truth is by the time you got to that point she was already gone or didn't feel like you were fulfilling her requests. You didn't take "responsibility" when she needed some eloquence so she didn't see a need to give you security. The good news is that everyone goes through stuff like that because like i said i was kind of there the important thing, like you briefly mentioned, is to be who you want. wow i love this. I’m doing a project on the importance of being a whole person before you try to be with someone else and i stumbled upon your blog and I found myself in a similar situation as you and the problem is is that when we women realize there is a problem we search for the right words or the right time or we even have futile assumptions that our problems with our men will just up and vanish; and that is a problem. At your point or insecurity I’m sure that you expected your girlfriend to help you but the truth is by the time you got to that point she was already gone or didn’t feel like you were fulfilling her requests. You didn’t take “responsibility” when she needed some eloquence so she didn’t see a need to give you security. The good news is that everyone goes through stuff like that because like i said i was kind of there the important thing, like you briefly mentioned, is to be who you want.

]]> Comment on “I don’t want you to do the dishes… I want you to WANT to do the dishes.” by Wile E. Filipino http://wilyfilipino.wordpress.com/2008/08/31/i-dont-want-you-to-do-the-dishes-i-want-you-to-want-to-do-the-dishes/#comment-394 Wile E. Filipino Fri, 02 Oct 2009 21:32:50 +0000 http://wilyfilipino.wordpress.com/?p=195#comment-394 Are you proposing? Are you proposing?

]]> Comment on “I don’t want you to do the dishes… I want you to WANT to do the dishes.” by wow http://wilyfilipino.wordpress.com/2008/08/31/i-dont-want-you-to-do-the-dishes-i-want-you-to-want-to-do-the-dishes/#comment-393 wow Thu, 01 Oct 2009 19:50:55 +0000 http://wilyfilipino.wordpress.com/?p=195#comment-393 Why aren't you married?!?!? You soooo totally GET it! Why aren’t you married?!?!? You soooo totally GET it!

]]> Comment on Gimme a Break, Giiiiimme a Break, Break Me Off a Piece of That… by Wile E. Filipino http://wilyfilipino.wordpress.com/2009/09/07/gimme-a-break-giiiiimme-a-break-break-me-off-a-piece-of-that/#comment-392 Wile E. Filipino Sat, 12 Sep 2009 16:47:39 +0000 http://wilyfilipino.wordpress.com/?p=428#comment-392 For me, relationships have always been about investment. How much of your mind/heart/soul you want to give. And love, I've learned, is about choices. One quote that hit home for me is from the movie The Last Kiss: "Stop talking about love, every asshole in the world says he loves somebody. Means nothing! What you feel only matters to you. It’s what you DO to the people you say you love, that’s what matters. It’s the only thing that counts." Thanks for reading. For me, relationships have always been about investment. How much of your mind/heart/soul you want to give. And love, I’ve learned, is about choices. One quote that hit home for me is from the movie The Last Kiss:

“Stop talking about love, every asshole in the world says he loves somebody. Means nothing! What you feel only matters to you. It’s what you DO to the people you say you love, that’s what matters. It’s the only thing that counts.”

Thanks for reading.

]]> Comment on Phenomenon, Do Dooo do do DO! by samronsilva http://wilyfilipino.wordpress.com/2009/09/10/phenomenon-do-dooo-do-do-do/#comment-390 samronsilva Sat, 12 Sep 2009 05:33:19 +0000 http://wilyfilipino.wordpress.com/?p=434#comment-390 100%? I liked that story on the Zen master. This smacks of such knowledge :) 100%?

I liked that story on the Zen master. This smacks of such knowledge :)

]]> Comment on Gimme a Break, Giiiiimme a Break, Break Me Off a Piece of That… by Ken Kendall http://wilyfilipino.wordpress.com/2009/09/07/gimme-a-break-giiiiimme-a-break-break-me-off-a-piece-of-that/#comment-388 Ken Kendall Tue, 08 Sep 2009 05:50:29 +0000 http://wilyfilipino.wordpress.com/?p=428#comment-388 After reading this I really want your opinion on my new blog. It is about relationships. Specifically what men can do to make them great. http://whatsheneedsfromyou.wordpress.com Please take a look and give me your comments. Thanks, After reading this I really want your opinion on my new blog. It is about relationships. Specifically what men can do to make them great.

http://whatsheneedsfromyou.wordpress.com

Please take a look and give me your comments.

Thanks,

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